ALMANAC

Kind. Capable.
Good company at eighteen.

Almanac is like a friend who knows your family and helps you raise your kids on purpose.

A childhood is about 936 weeks.

Almanac is how you make them count.

CHAT

Know what to do next.

Tell Almanac what happened. It knows your family, so what it says fits yours.

It remembers what you’ve told it.

Everything you share shapes the next answer, for each of your children.

“How was school?” “Fine.” That’s all I get from Nora these days.

REMEMBERED · 12 MARCH

“She holds it together at school and lets go at home.”

That “fine” can feel like a closed door. But you told me she holds it together all day at school. By pickup she may simply have nothing left for questions. The quiet is often less about shutting you out, and more about her filling back up.

So I just stop asking? I want to know what’s going on with her.

REMEMBERED · 3 JUNE

“Ada is her best friend. They sit together at lunch.”

Not stop, maybe just make the question smaller. “How was your day?” is a big one to answer. What if you asked about Ada instead, something like “What did you and Ada talk about at lunch?” or “Did anything make you laugh today?” It can also help to go first: share one small thing from your own day, then leave a little pause.

Our best talks are always in the car, actually.

That makes a lot of sense. Side by side, no eye contact, nowhere to be. Lots of children talk most when they don’t feel looked at. What if you let the first half of the drive home be quiet? A snack, some music, no questions. Then, once she’s had a moment to land, ask your one small question. And when she does open up, try listening all the way to the end before fixing anything. That’s usually what brings her back the next time.

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INTERVIEWS

The questions worth asking.

About your child, and about you. A few each week, chosen for their age.

CHARACTER

Something they’ve had since they were tiny? Something you worry the world will knock out of them?

What about them do you hope never changes?

How openly they love people How silly they are. They don’t care who’s watching. The way they want to know why about everything They still tell me things

Think about how you were raised. Most people have one thing, and it doesn’t have to be dramatic.

What from your own childhood are you trying not to repeat?

Write as much or as little as you likeMy dad shouted. Not every day, but often enough that I learned to read his face at the door before I said anything. I loved him, and I still do, but I never told him when something was going wrong. Last week I raised my voice at Nora over her shoes, and I watched her go quiet in exactly the way I used to. That scared me more than anything she has ever done. I want her to bring me the bad news as easily as the good. I won’t get it right every time. But when I don’t, I want to go back and say sorry, because nobody ever did that for me.

As much or as little as you want to put down.

What do you want your children to say about their childhood?

That it was happy. That’s all. That home was somewhere they could relax That they had lots of freedom That we did loads together as a family

Something they could say and mean, like “I can handle hard things”.

What would you like them to believe about themselves at eighteen?

Write as much or as little as you likeThat she’s loved whatever happens. Growing up, love in our house felt like something you earned by being good, and I was always a bit tired from trying. I don’t want Nora to feel she has to earn it. She can fail at something or make a choice I hate, and she’ll still come home to the same welcome. If she’s sure of that at eighteen, I think she’ll be brave about everything else.

ABOUT

A portrait of your child, in your words.

Almanac rewrites it after every interview. There’s a page about you too, so it knows how to talk to you.

About Nora

IN SHORT

Nora collects passions — dinosaurs this month, drawing the last — and can talk about them for an hour. Feelings run big and honest, and settle quickly once they’re named.

Kind by instinct, especially with younger children. New ground is where Nora slows down: a change of plan still needs a moment to land.

Clearest so far Interests, FeelingsStill to explore Change, Health

ABOUT YOU · FROM YOUR INTERVIEW

You grew up reading your dad’s face to know what kind of evening it would be, and you never told him when something was wrong. You want the opposite for Nora: that she brings you the bad news, and that she knows she’s loved whatever happens. You expect to slip sometimes. When you do, you plan to go back and say sorry, which nobody did for you.

INSIGHTS

See who they’re becoming.

Every answer moves the picture a little further, across ten parts of growing up, from character to health.

HABITS

Small things, most days, shape who they become.

Small things you can do many times a day, for what matters most.

JOURNAL

Keep the weeks you’d otherwise forget.

Say a few words, or add a photo. Almanac writes up your week, so the story is still there when they’re grown.

21 – 27 SEPTEMBER

The week of the drawing

It rained most of the week. Then Tuesday.

14 – 20 SEPTEMBER

First sleepover

Nora packed her own bag, and then packed it again.

7 – 13 SEPTEMBER

Robin’s new word

It was “mine”, and he used it all week.

31 AUGUST – 6 SEPTEMBER

Back to school

New shoes, and the same friend waiting at the gate.

THE WEEK OF 21 SEPTEMBER

The week of the drawing

It rained most of the week. Then Tuesday.

The hospital called about Grandad, and for an hour nobody said much. Nora noticed. Without a word, a drawing appeared on the kitchen table: Grandad in his garden, the tomatoes far too big.

Robin wanted to make one too. His is mostly purple, and he says it’s also Grandad.

He came home on Friday. The drawing is on his fridge now.

That night Tom wrote one line in the notes:

I think we’re raising someone kind.

TROVE

Keep the moments that show who they are.

Add a photo and it becomes a card in their Trove. Star the ones you’ll want to show them one day.

Done · 12 Jun

Said sorry first

PAINTED FROM THE WORDSCHARACTER

She went back to Leo on her own and said sorry. Nobody asked her to.

NO. 004DONE
Done · 3 Aug

Finished the hard puzzle

PAINTED FROM THE WORDSTHINKING

Two evenings, a lot of sighing, and she wouldn’t let me help. Then the last piece.

NO. 009DONE
Done · 19 Sep

Glided the whole path on his own

Robin on his balance bike, seen from behind, on a sunny park path
PHOTO · 18:40ROBIN · CONFIDENCE

Two weeks of pushing along with his feet. Today he lifted them and glided all the way to the bridge.

NO. 012★ STARRED

Another year of meaning to?

TODAY

Winging it, like most parents. Reacting to whatever the day brings. The big questions wait, and good intentions slip by Friday.

WITH ALMANAC

Clear about what matters for your child, and why. A nudge when it counts, a few habits that stick, and their progress there to see.

THE FILM

Almanac in seventy seconds.

From the first week to the last: what it’s like to have Almanac beside you.

Made for the eighteen years you get.

For parents

Everything in Almanac is for you. It’s where your thinking about your kids lives.

Birth to eighteen

The questions change as they grow, and so do the habits worth keeping.

A few minutes a week

Two or three check-ins a week is plenty. It fits the week you already have.

Private, and yours

What you tell Almanac is kept in your account, for your family. Delete it whenever you want.

Almanac

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